Aesop
Hey y'all
I find myself in a very unusual predicament---I have a platform and so much to say. I know there's 'blood in the water' but I don't feel that I need to be chumming nor do I condone it--despite the fact that some are reveling in it still.
I often hear it said that the world is a cruel place and that people in general are less concerned for their fellow human beings. I have to disagree.
I know that what has kept me going has been kindness------the kindness of friends and strangers. I'm touched beyond words at the acts of kindness I've received.
It may seem a small thing to write out directions or to adjust a vacation booking or to just ask if some stranger you see is emotionally distraught is okay.
Small things--but every one was appreciated immeasurably.
There have been some horrible things said to me as well but I will not allow them to hurt me anymore.
Instead I'll focus on the kindness....of strangers who asked after me and emailed me to say I hope you are okay.
And my friends---I cannot ever repay the love and support you have shown me. I am ever so humbly indebted to you.
Smooches and gropes babies.
I find myself in a very unusual predicament---I have a platform and so much to say. I know there's 'blood in the water' but I don't feel that I need to be chumming nor do I condone it--despite the fact that some are reveling in it still.
I often hear it said that the world is a cruel place and that people in general are less concerned for their fellow human beings. I have to disagree.
I know that what has kept me going has been kindness------the kindness of friends and strangers. I'm touched beyond words at the acts of kindness I've received.
It may seem a small thing to write out directions or to adjust a vacation booking or to just ask if some stranger you see is emotionally distraught is okay.
Small things--but every one was appreciated immeasurably.
There have been some horrible things said to me as well but I will not allow them to hurt me anymore.
Instead I'll focus on the kindness....of strangers who asked after me and emailed me to say I hope you are okay.
And my friends---I cannot ever repay the love and support you have shown me. I am ever so humbly indebted to you.
Smooches and gropes babies.
41 comments:
I'm afraid I'm out of the loop on this one - maybe that is a good thing - but I wanted to chime in on the kindness of strangers thought. It's funny how something so seemingly small - a smile, a "Good Morning", a random comment - can keep us going when at times there seems to be no more motivation. I hope you find more of those!
Look at your photo. Look at the smile. And that's what we want to see. We'll hammer away until we see your smile.
It's important to remember that it still exists.
HUGS dear friend.... the chummers can all KMA...
You are all that matters.
Stay strong and continue your class and dignity.
Anytime!!! ((((big hugs))))
in the end all you can be is you, and all you can do is what you do. you don't have to explain yourself to anyone, and only you know your heart! yet from what i see here, it's a good one.
peace!
Your friends are here for you, always.
Well said Hon and you know, like I've said before: ANY time and DON'T mention it! You are worth it and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
You have some amazing people by your side and you deserve to relish in THAT and throw the negativity away.
And yes...let's car dance til we find our happy places :).
I cannot tell you how many times I wanted to e-mail you to see how you were, but as we only just "met" it didn't feel quite right. But you've been in my thoughts. I hope you find a little more happy every day.
You are a bright, funny, intelligent, beautiful woman. Never, EVER forget your self-worth, sugar. YOU are a WINNER.
Big hugs to you.
Turnbaby,
I wanted to say that I thinnk it was great that you hosted the radio show last night.
I hope that your pain eases everyday that passes.
Never, EVER forget that you are an intelligent, witty, beautiful, strong woman.
Love yourself, darlin', and continue to love others as you do. The love is contagious.
Not sure what's going on and I don't need to know as it's not my business. Just wanted to send extra hugs and smiles your way in case you need them. Take care!
Yup, I'm out of the loop too, but I believe in the kindness of strangers as well. Living in such a harsh city as NYC, sometimes you can forget that most people actually enjoy being nice! I've actually witnessed chain reactions of people being considerate, which is more noticeable here than anywhere and it always makes me smile.
By the way, Miss Trivia Thang, I have a lyrics quiz up. I expect you to pass with flying colors.
Well girl your attitude is excellent. You can't let 'em get you down. Smile sexy.
tough as it may be, smile.
Pulling for you for sure.
I tried to email you but I am afraid it was sucked into your junk mail. If not, I hope you remember that no matter what, people do indeed love you...even strangers.
Random acts of kindness are what helps the world go round.
The kindness you've experienced is well deserved my friend. You have always gone out of your way to be kind.
Thekindness you've experienced over the last week, well, it comes from the good juju your friends far and wide have been sending. When we can't physically be there to take care of those things for you, strangers act as proxies.
You are enveloped in our arms and wrapped up in our hearts. I wish we could shield you from the hatefulness of some, but I expect even their hurtful behaviour serves to magnify the good that has come and will continue to come your way.
I love you my friend.
Always.
Your welcome.
A friend in need is a friend in deed.
I think that's the post office's motto.
Stay well.
I'm with Dana--totally out of the loop, but totally in agreement with what you had to say. Hope things are smoothing out for you some!
Dawg and I got to hear a little bit of your show on Sunday night! And then we went out for Slurpees and a ride in the A/C since the basement was so oppressively hot. He listens to all the shows, but I'm terrible about listening to them after-the-fact. I hope you had a great show with Shiny!
Hey there,
I found thru Britt and I am smack-dab in the middle of a divorce b-cuz my hubbie of only 5 years, total of 8 being together couldn't handle being a father to our 15 mth old and wanted out. He got himself a younger girl and poof! he's been gone.
I say that b-cuz even though that's part of what happened to ME:I would NEVER condemn someone else. Like your situation... All these self-righteous assholes are just that Baby.
You are a good person:It's obvious by how loyal so many of your readers are.....
I only wish you the best!!
Do you know how many times I have just thought about being a lesbain? But then we females are so DAMN emotional:)
You got class Lady! Hat's off to you.
You are truly a classy lady. I honestly wish I had that kind of grace when life deals me a bad hand.
If nothing else, you are an example of how we should act.
xxxx
Hope you're doing okay. *HUGS*
I wish you peace and some sort of closure.
Katbanjo, catcuracha.
It's very obvious from this post that you are one classy lady.
I wish you all the best. :)
I'm not sure what's going on, cuz sometimes the puppy misses things, but I hope you are okay. Keep up the positive attitude and don't let the world get you down. Here's hoping things work out for you. Hugs.
I don't know much of all that has happened, but what I do know is you are hurting and that makes me sad. From today forward, I wish you nothing but happiness, joy, and love. Being kind and nice does matter in the world we live in. You are a true testament of both. Warm Hugs to you Turnbaby.
Blessings,
Kimmie
My heart aches for you. My wish for you is peace. Hugs.
I am new to the blogging world, but old to the world. I just had to let you know that you seem to be one of the classiest ladies ever. Keep your chin up. Good things are in store for you.
Honey, I have so much respect for you, for sticking with who you are and how you feel, on this blog and others. The fact that you had your radio show on Sunday when others would have hid under a rock and that you're here today.
You're amazing and I don't have the words. Love you!
I was going to send you a cake to make you feel better, but it looked good so I ate the whole thing and thought it might be rude to just send an empty box.
Here's a big, wet, sloppy kiss to you TB. Cheers!!
Hi, Turnbaby. I am coming out of lurking mode to wish you well. I have been reading you for a couple of months now (via Britt) and just wanted to say how much I enjoy your blog and in particular your radio show. I have been listening for a while now and really enjoy the topics you cover. I have also downloaded your Edible Red theme song from iTunes (great track.)One day I hope to call in on your show but it is tricky for me to listen live as I live in Australia and I am about 12 hours ahead of you time-wise. So I usually download the shows.
I want you to know I am thinking of you. Take care.
If you had any more sugar on you..why.....ummm....the FDA would ban you! We certainly wouldn't want that to happen!
Chin up you classy lady, you! Be strong.
Welcome home, it is lake time!!!!
Welcome back to "Kain"-tucky! Glad you're back!
J.
love to yew...
I am not privy to the details of what happened, nor do Ieel it is really any of my business. Just keep your head up and everthing will work itself out as it should be.
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